Friend and Mentor

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My Friend and Mentor

Cece

In re-writing this profile, I have been reflecting on what matters to me most and, in particular, the

important relationships my life. I have been thinking a lot about my late friend and PT&A associate, CeCe Phillips. CeCe and I were born the same year, just a few weeks apart.


Our closeness in age felt like a special bond. I often joked with her about how she was older than me. She would always reply, “ Now Paul, you don’t want to go there!” I thought I was her best friend…at least that is how she made me (and so many others) feel.


She was so supportive and always made it clear that she truly cared about me and my wellbeing. She was an amazing colleague and older sister to me. We talked on the phone, exchanged e-mails, saw each other at business meetings, and often co-taught classes together.


Many years later, when she was too sick to travel because of cancer, I would visit her. At the celebration of her life after she passed, it was clear that she had been a best friend to so many. She loved all of us and had a gift for treating everyone in her life as someone special.


CeCe was a great listener, a quality so important in a friend. She was curious about me, my family, my wife Leslie, our two daughters, my small business and where we were going in this life. Every time we were together she asked good questions and gave me space to answer. When giving advice, she was careful to say just enough and not more. She was so wise.

CeCe was also quick to share with me how I was able to support to her. I remember giving her advice once about what she could say in a speech to a small business group. Though she didn’t end up using any of my exact suggestions, she told me afterwards, “What you shared with me was in that speech. Your ideas helped me think through what I wanted to say. Without talking to you first, I might not have ever gotten there on my own.”


In the last weeks of her life, I called her every couple of days and we would talk by cell phone while I did errands and she sat in her chemotherapy treatment. We chatted about her family, our business colleagues, and what we wanted to do next. (We were always planning our next big idea or business venture together.) We laughed together and shared stories. She continued to inspire me with her passion for life, even as life was ebbing from her.



Of the many lessons I learned from this remarkable woman, three stand out:

  • Listen closely and watch carefully when someone is talking to you.
  • Do whatever you can to empower and provide support to all the people around you.
  • If there is a choice between playing and working, always choose play.


It is hard to label many things in life as “perfect” but this may have been the perfect friendship. Thank you CeCe for being a wonderful friend, mentor, and teacher.


You and our memories of you continue to inspire!

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By Paul Terry July 8, 2026
Kibo Farm’s Vince and Jenny Trotter. Here is the background of business experience, philosophy, and passion that Jenny and her husband Vince have used to start and develop a successful small business. (This interview written in part by Lauren Papalia a Sonoma County writer and part-time farmer and edited in length with some added details by Paul Terry) LP (Lauren Papalia) : Kibo Farm’s crops are nestled in a bowl, surrounded on three sides by Belden Barns grapevines. What are the nuances of your topography and the challenges and advantages that come with it? KF (Kibo Farm) : The property itself sits nearly 1,000 feet up the Northwestern flank of Sonoma Mountain, looking out over Rohnert Park and Bennett Valley. The beauty of this spot is that we rarely, if ever, get frost because cold air slides down the mountain, settling in the lower elevations. Our lemon, mandarin, lime, and yuzu trees love it! With that topographical feature working in our favor, we’ve got more citrus trees planned, which will help with wintertime cashflow. LP: Kibo Farm was an inaugural cohort of co-op members at FEED. Jenny, you were formerly the Board's president. Philosophically speaking, what are some of the challenges and benefits of structuring an organization in this way? KF: There are many benefits to the co-op model for the key stakeholders – in our case, the farms and FEED employees – are able to have a voice in how the business operates. The work that FEED does – marketing, selling, and moving local products from farms to customers – is such an essential part of the food chain. We can grow delicious produce, but we need to get it to eaters. With a cooperative structure, we are creating a robust, collaborative, and sustainable organization that we know we can count on. Additionally, we can reach buyers of scale that we might not have been able to serve well individually. LP: What do you find most rewarding about farming? KF: Hands down – the pleasure of feeding people. That may sound corny, but we get such a high watching friends or family enjoy a delicious meal that you prepared, multiply that by 10 and you will understand. We may not be in the restaurants and homes where our produce is served, but we know many of the chefs who buy from us, and our neighbors and friends. This is proof that our labors nourish and even delight our community. That brings us deep satisfaction. LP: You told us that “farming is the life to which you’ve been called, and if one word captures the feeling of that calling, it’s stewardship.” What does "stewardship" means to you? KF: Stewardship for us is bringing our whole selves to farming and making choices that result in long-term benefits to the land and to the living beings reliant on that land. It is about caring for this place for the time we are here and for the benefit of future generations. We don’t own this land but feel so grateful to be able to farm it and for the relationship we have with the landowners. Nate and Lauren Belden, who own the property recognize that, in this region, there is an imbalance by which land usage for wine grapes often outcompetes other forms of agriculture. They felt that sharing land can actually create some interesting opportunities that benefit the different crops as well as the people who farm them. The Beldens are conscious of the constraints placed on producers like us and work hard to make sure that our relationship works for everyone involved. LP: What’s something you wish more people knew about farming? KF: Over the last 20 years, farming has been glamorized where some farmers enjoy a near-celebrity status. This elevated profile of agriculture has helped all of us to find new markets and new customers. But farming sometimes gets labeled a "lifestyle" rather than a "living". Every farm is a small business struggling to stay alive. If many of us work second jobs that doesn't diminish the farm as an important enterprise, it simply underscores the difficult economics of producing food in this day and age. Across the US, the average farm makes less than 25% of the income they need to support their families from revenue generated on the farm. The bulk of what they need comes from other jobs. At Kibo Farm, land and housing is subsidized, but we still rely on off-farm work to cover over full cost of healthcare, childcare, etc., and so do our employees. LP. The USDA cites small holdings like Kibo account for over 90% of all US farms but only 15% of overall market value of agricultural production. How do we make this better? Do co-ops help ameliorate some of these issues? KF: We have to work together to solve problems like the high cost of land and disparate degrees of access. We have to raise the expectations for how much food should (because it actually *does*) cost. With time, we need to find ways to compensate farmers and ranchers not just for their products but also for the ecosystem services they provide to the community as a whole: sequestering carbon in the ground, converting food waste into soil-enriching compost, maintaining open landscapes, reducing wildfire fuels, and staving off invasive plants and insects. In terms of solutions, cooperative ownership models certainly play a significant part. By coming together with other farms who are technically our competitors, we can work together to supply food to communities on a much larger scale, creating economic security for the farms and a more stable supply chain for the communities. Cooperative ownership of land where farms pool capital and spread the risk of expensive acreage could be an interesting solution in competitive regions like ours. LP: What is your vision for the farm's future? What are you most excited or hopeful about? 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