My First Business Partnership
The first business I owned in San Francisco was a retail food business. It was a crash course in how to launch a small business from scratch and what it takes to have a business partnership.
Know your business partner
My business partner, Michael, and I were good friends before we went into business together. We lived in a house collectively with ten other people and spent a lot of time in the shared kitchen. We enjoyed cooking big meals and feeding everyone. At the time, Michael co-owned a small manufacturing business. As we became friends, I helped in his business and we discovered a complementary work style and a similar approach to business management. We both saw a small business as a potential vehicle for “right livelihood” and shared a collaborative approach to decision-making. It didn’t take long before we connected on a common business idea and decided to start a food retail business together.
Start with a good foundation
By the time we agreed to go into business together, we had a solid foundation for a business partnership. Michael had started a business from scratch and had essential technical and computer skills. I had been to business school in Canada had helped other friends start businesses.
So, we discovered what was most important was that:
- We liked and trusted each other and we already knew we could work well together,
- We had complementary skills, and were both committed to working hard and planning ahead,
- We were comfortable with taking a measure and shared a passion… for gourmet food.
Agree on a viable business model
Our first idea was a catering business, making and delivering gourmet lunches to corporate offices. We would use our home kitchen to keep it simple and lower costs. However, we quickly learned that making food in a home kitchen wouldn’t be legal. It also couldn’t easily scale. We then researched buying an existing restaurant. We identified a restaurant, researched the legalities using the kitchen, building out space, and hiring staff. But the complexity of a restaurant would require more capital than we could raise. Given our skills, timeline, and budget, we decided to compromise and start a gourmet deli.
Do the shoe leather research – street by street
We scouted neighborhoods for good foot traffic and reasonable rent. We viewed spaces on Haight Street, Potrero Hill, West Portal, Noe Valley, and Inner Sunset. Finally, we found a tiny storefront on Fillmore Street - an old laundromat available for sub-lease from the master next door, a tennis racket repair shop. The space was the right price and we negotiated a fair lease. There was a hospital nearby and many new retailers moving into the neighborhood. But we had another problem. There was an established deli right across the street. So, we pivoted. We signed the sub-lease for our new gourmet cheese shop Cheshire Cheese. We were off and running!
Share the load
We spent the next six weeks planning and building the storefront. It was a community effort. The two of us focused on legalities and product ordering, and we recruited friends to help with carpentry, plumbing, interior design, and graphics. We figured out how to share responsibility for the business, each taking charge of certain aspects given our interests and skills. The partnership was working well.
Our partnership success
The success of our partnership and, I believe, any business partnership was based on planning, shared values, and a passionate commitment to a common ideal and purpose. We had very compatible personalities and work styles that had been tested on past experience running our collective household. Due to his business development and my business degree, we had complementary skill sets and areas of business expertise. It was obvious we had good communication, joint decision-making, and really enjoyed each other’s sense of humor. Before opening we had a solid plan on how to market and manage the business… and make it work financially!
My partnership with Michael started with Cheshire Cheese and continued on into two other businesses. This hands-on business partnership experience continues to inform my consulting work today. Owning a business with others can be an incredibly rewarding experience — but to work well it must be based on a solid foundation and good planning.


